The Americans just had a big election, and Canada’s next has been effectively underway for a while now. Automated moderation systems are being increasingly relied upon by large social media networks and are running amok with bans (I may be biased on this one, see “The Technology Deleted Me”)). Opinions are everywhere, and many social media users live in fear of getting booted from their platform of choice over an innocuous post. “Of choice” usually being where the largest concentration of their connections also have accounts. For me that’s Facebook; for others it might be Instagram, Snapchat, Bluesky, or X.

What if there was a social media network built in such a way that you couldn’t be banned? Where your posts couldn’t be removed? Where you couldn’t be “put in the corner” by a group admin who didn’t like that the recipe page you shared had the word “crap” in it? Wouldn’t that be great? Yes, this does mean extreme (or straight-up illegal) content could be posted, but that’s happening on mainstream social media as well. Monitoring and banning isn’t working there so there’s no reason to repeat it elsewhere.

The unbannable social media I’m bringing to you today is called “Nostr”; "Notes and Other Stuff Transmitted by Relays”. How it works is explained in the name; notes (posts) are transmitted from a client (app on your device) to relays (servers) which are then transmitted to other relays and clients connected to them. I’ll explain in more detail as we go through the setup process.

Step 1: Pick a client. I like Damus on iOS and noStrudel on desktop. Nostur is also popular on iOS. Amethyst and Primal are popular on Android. Pick the one you most like the look of.

Step 2: Set up an “account”. On Nostr you won’t have an account in the traditional sense. You’ll instead have a public/private key set (also known as a keypair). Think of your public key as your username and your private key as your password; only you won’t need to pick, memorize, or regularly use either of them. Your client will do most of that for you. Install the app of your choosing, launch it, and you’ll be walked through the account creation process. I strongly recommend copying your public key (the long random string that starts with “npub”) and your private key (the long random string that starts with “nsec”) to a password manager (see “Ugh, Passwords!” for more on password managers).

Optional: Step 2.5: Set up your “NIP-05 identifier”. This is totally optional, and can be done later if you aren’t up for it right now. A NIP-05 identifier looks identical to an email address (name@domain.something) and is used as an easier way for others to find your profile. There are several free and paid services for this, most of which come with other benefits and services. A popular free one is Nostrcheck.me.

Step 3: Choose some relays. Most clients will have a pre-configured set of public relays that work fine for most users. If you think of yourself as just a normal person trying to not be banned, you can skip this step. For everyone else, reach out to me for recommendations. A whole ‘nother article could be written on the subject of relays for niche needs.

Step 4: Find friends to follow. You can start with me if you like, by searching for my public key (npub1kw893e70hve5ymc8kxr75d8m9wcuaaasqzn37xvea6l4f39q04fs7zusa4), or my NIP-05 (tnperron@nostr.theorangepillapp.com).

Optional: Step 5: Post something! Also totally optional, but highly recommended! Even a simple “Hello, world!” will let others visiting your profile know that your account is being actively used.

That’s it, you’re now unbannable! How, you ask? There are two keys to this (pun fully intended). The first is that your public/private keypair is yours to control, can be loaded into any client, and used to connect to any relay (though you may need to pay for access to some). The second is that if someone operating a relay decides they don’t want to relay your posts anymore, you can still use any other on the big wide internet. You can even run your own relay if you want! No one can stop you!

Want help with any of these steps, or more details on advanced options like running your own node? You can find us at scalebright.ca.